Monday, January 17, 2011

Sissy Belle Turns 4 (That's Daddy's New Name For Her)

 Della Belle turned 4 this month. I wanted to do something a little different this year and I tried to celebrate her birthday like any other mother, by doing things that my daughter loves and making it a special time for her. Della's past birthdays have been difficult in that the developmental gap between her and other children who are the same age grows wider and wider. Four years-old is a time for "big girls" who are potty trained, who tuck baby dolls into cradles, and who like to declare their independence by putting on wild mis-matched outfits. Not comparing her to other children is much easier said than done. But this year I tried really hard to just celebrate Della for who she is and what she can do. The following pictures don't really need explanation...












Della's Big Accomplishments From The Last Year

  • Started using AAC technology to communicate with us. She pushes a button on her "talk box" and the computer voice "speaks" for her.
  • Took 2 consecutive steps on her own.
  • Has formed opinions on things that she likes and and what she doesn't in TV shows and food.
  • Learned to go up the school bus stairs holding onto the railing and the bus driver's hand enabling us to get rid of the wheelchair! This is awesome since loading a wheelchair onto a lift and waiting for it to slowly lower and then releasing the wheelchair takes a long time, especially when it is 40 degrees and pouring rain.
  • Will (sometimes) eat new foods if they are slathered in ketchup.
  • Has consistently done her #2's in the potty for one year! That is a HUGE deal to us.
  • Mastered her fancy new walker with swivel wheels and can now maneuver around a lot faster.
  • Kicked out one window screen and ripped the other 2 out of 3 screens so she can stick her head out of the family room windows to "yell" at her brother and his friends playing in the backyard.
  • Realized that there are other options than whatever she is doing at the moment (like watching TV instead of sitting on the potty) and throwing massive tantrums when she doesn't get her way. This is actually good because it shows more advanced cognitive development since she used to lay on the family room carpet all day. Literally.
We love Della so much and we are so glad that she is in our family. She brings so much joy and love into our lives. 

    5 comments:

    Jen said...

    Wow...she is ALL smiles! Must have been a perfect day for her.

    Allison said...

    She is so beautiful! I love how happy she is with Woody. :) Happy birthday Sissy Belle.

    Beth said...

    What priceless pictures!! She is a little angel.

    Yeah!!! for going #2 in the potty for a year!! She is ahead of Harper on that one...he turned 3 the beginning of November and is still struggling with the potty :(

    And for getting on the bus too!

    Amy said...

    Happy Birthday Sissy Belle! We love you!

    Science Teacher Mommy said...

    *hugs*